Hiding Behind the Masculine Shield?
- thewildmedeina
- Feb 1
- 2 min read
Updated: Mar 5

Being a wild and feral woman means embracing both the feminine and the masculine, the sacred dance of duality that allows us to fully express our power in all its forms.
But let’s be real: social conditioning has us locked in an over-achieving masculine state for far too long. And I’m not alone in this. I know so many of you can relate to this struggle.
We live in a society where LINEAR EDUCATION and the CONSTANT CHASE FOR SUCCESS are drilled into our brains from a young age. We’re taught that the more achievements we rack up, the busier we are, the more courses we take, the happier and fulfilled we’ll be. Right?
I’ll be the first to tell you, that lie had me in its grip for way too long.
Over the past year or so, I devoured all the knowledge on divine feminine work I could find. I listened to thousands of hours of content, thinking that by absorbing all this information, I would somehow unlock the magic of the feminine. But guess what? I STILL FELT DRY, DISTANT AND DISCONNECTED from my true feminine energy. I was trying so hard to “understand” it, but the magic just wasn’t clicking.
And then—after yet another sleepless night, after crying my eyes out—I HAD A REVELATION. The feminine cannot be understood by the logical brain. It must be embodied and felt. You can spend all day reading books, listening to podcasts, consuming all the divine feminine content in the world, but the only way to actually FEEL THE MAGIC IS WHEN YOU EMBODY IT. When you slow down. When you do the practices. When you feel it in your bones.
Once I started to embody the information I had been absorbing, things started to shift. My LIFE STARTED TO CHANGE. I began setting boundaries, honouring my intuition and actually allowing myself to slow down. I DANCED WITH INTENTION, I indulged in sensual shower rituals before my 9-5 grind, I lit Palo Santo every evening to cleanse my space and I EXPRESSED MY FEELINGS—even when it felt uncomfortable.
Now, let’s bring in the wolves, because they know. Wolves are instinctual beings. They don’t question when it’s time to hunt, sleep, guard or mate—they FEEL IT DEEP WITHIN THEIR BONES. They trust their instincts. Just like us women, when we learn to listen, we can feel when it’s time to slow down, to drop into our softness and embody the MYSTICAL GODDESS WITHIN US.
This is why I’ve created this community—to support and uplift women who are going through the same journey I went through. FELLOW WOLF WOMEN, YOU ARE NOT ALONE. We are done hiding behind the masculine values of this world. We all have that inner knowing, that gut feeling deep within. I’m inviting you to GIVE YOURSELF PERMISSION TO HOWL.
Draw your boundaries. Own your energy. And let your wild spirit run free!

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